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Jalaa hia jism jahaa.N dil bhii jal gayaa hogaa,
Kuredate ho jo ab raakh justajuu kyaa hai.- Ghalib
There is no other line better then Agha Shahid Ali’s that explains this better poetically.
All you grammarian retards can pretend language is about rules and not about culture. As for the ‘native speaker/language’ chauvinists, shove it.